Today, my dear readers, I am going to present you a few thoughts on my love of cats. Right after the photo or maybe before it – they occupy a very important place in my life.
A bit perversely, I even think that a cat is able to replace a man in my life. Why I think so and whether I am doomed to be an old maid with a cat – I will find out about it in a moment.
Are cats better than men?
Basically, I don’t think cats are better than humans. It is all about convenience and accessibility.
In the case of people who have cats, for example single women, it’s about loneliness. All you need to do is adopt a cat and have a friend. You know that there is always someone waiting for you at home, always keeping you company, and having someone to cuddle with. Someone who will always be glad to see you.
I’m at such a stage in my life that, to be honest, I feel fine alone. I have my own small photography business which takes me a lot of time and requires frequent trips. Privately, I am also a volunteer in the San Antonio Lonely Cats organization, where I take care of small kittens.
Due to my profession, I like to photograph my cat.
Why am I not dating men?
It’s true, sometimes I feel lonely – I have already written about it, but I consciously give up looking for the other person.
I just don’t have time for dates. It’s probably about the energy you have to invest in the other person. I feel like I don’t have to bother with a cat as much as starting a whole new relationship and tearing my way through the jungle of dating today.
Today you have to get fully involved right now. You often date someone through social media apps and then meet them face to face and they look completely different than in photos. And the cat? There is no such problem with a cat. You always know what your cat looks like and what to expect from him.
It’s just easy with cats. You get unconditional company and you have stress and hysteria over your head. Men behave like children when they are sick, for example. If you need feeling, you’ll find it here too, without high expectations and all this mess. A bit like the situation when you turn 40 and you do not feel like nerves, moods and drama.
Cats are hassle free.
Why I love having a cat company
Well, the company of a cat suits me very well. He’s warm and I can hug him when I come back after a hard day’s work.
Just knowing that I have someone to go home to. Whenever I come back, he is so happy to see me, jump up, fawn and hug me. I can see his joy at the sight of me. Nice to know that I am not returning to an empty house and that someone is always waiting for me. It’s enough for me.
A relationship with another human being is hard work. It requires both sides to recover and work on themselves. We have to compromise. It is easier and more convenient with a cat – quite simply.
What is my cat like?
About this, my dear, you will find out soon when I prepare a special article on this topic.
Today I only write about cats compared to men. Finally, my colleague’s view on the same issue:
I’m not saying that I hate men or anything like that. But the cat will not snap back at you, mock you, or argue with you. He won’t go to the bar and get drunk with his buddies. It is easier to take care of. He is with you for better and for worse. He eats less. He cares more about cleanliness.
You story is very similar to the abusive harassment done by men to Sophia Burdick, the woman who went viral on YouTube in October 2014 to say she had sex in a restaurant where she was serving the customers, is in trouble again.
The San Jose Mercury News reports that on Thursday the U.S. Attorney’s for the Eastern District of California filed a federal civil suit, this time against the restaurant and its staff over a similar incident, this time involving a man in California who says he was fired and banned from performing “sexual contact with a female in a restaurant.”
Burdick, who was a regular in the “Diners, Drive-ins and Dives” restaurant chain, says she was trying to make dinner for a friend when she came across the man in a restaurant bathroom. “I was talking to him and asked if we could do some kissing on the bathroom floor,” she says, “and he just told me no when I was in the bathroom, and I needed to be quiet, and I just said, ‘What’s that thing in your hand?”
Rest of the story is quite odd and can not be published.
The conclusion is that I feel the same like you and I prefer cat then man. Period